Who am i to Judge.

Usually I mention real names sa akong blog entries but this time, I decide not to.

This is about my friend Sampaguita(not real name). Pretty girl. Smart. But got family problems.

First. Nagretake sha ug grade 1 kay problemado lagi iyang family, financially and whatever. Mao to pag second take niya kay top 1 sha sa whole grade 1 sa among school. Section Zinnia gud ko pag grade 1. Ang first section kay Aster, do the math. haha

And i think didto nagstart ang high expectation sa iyang family sa iyaha. Dapat sha ang pinakabest, dapat sha lang. Sha ang mag-aahon sa ilang family from poverty. So much pressure.

Last Grade sa elementary, iyang parents is expecting jud nga ma-apil sha sa honor role!~ but didn’t. And kabaw mo unsay nahitabo? Wala jud niattend iyang family kay nadisappoint jud sila. And wala jud daw nibayad sa mga bayarin sa school. As in jud. Science class man sha so ang nahitabo ang mga parents sa iyang classmate ang nagbayad sa iyaha. And kulatado daw sha. Much Fun.

HS, classmate na jud mi ni Sampaguita. As usual, taas japon ang expectation sa iyang parents sa iyaha. Smart gurl pud sha oe. Sa first grading sa first year, kay top 2 sha over-all sa class. So happy her parents oe. So proud jud sa pag-adto jud sa school. Next grading top 9 sha! Gibunalan daw sha sa iyang papa. WTF?

Next grading, wala na. Gibunalan na pud daw sha! WTF again! Matod pa niya, ang ingon daw sa iyang papa is:

If nabuhat nimo before, kaya nimo buhaton balik.

And he is referring to the top 2 spot. If nakaya daw niya pagkatop2 sauna, kaya pud daw niya balikon. Naliki akong beauty oe.

Niend ang HS, wala jud sha naapil sa honor role na pud. I think pressure is the killer sa iyang dream but luckily niattend ra man ata to iyang parents sa graduation.

I feel sad for Sampaguita. For a pretty flower under pressure, nalata ang beauty.

And the reason I am writing this is nakita nako nga naa na shay anak karon and kapuyo sa life. I’m not judgmental pero iyang bana-bana is heavy ka pangit. For a person nga dili pilian like me, then this is hard for me to say. And then nakathink ko nga basin kalitkalit lang to niya gipili kay tungod nahan na sha mohawa jud sa ilaha.

My say about her: She is pretty, she should have used her beautiful white face to somehow make her social status better. Di ra man guro lisod. Daghan man ang ana. Or at least man lang kanang tarong pud ug nawng. I really wonder unsay nahitabo. Nagrebelde jud guro sha sa iyang parents nga nagpressure niya maayo sugod pa sa bata siya. Siya pa jud ang oldest and as far as I could remember naa shay 2 ka igsoon and I don’t know if nasundan pa to. I even went to their house one time and accomodating ra man iyang parents pero no words can express unsa ka sad ilang environment (nilapas ko sa atop).

I really think she choose to be with a random guy para lang makalingkawas sa iyang parents. And ang lalaki, well jackpot much sha kang Sampaguita. And I thought nga ae dili ra kaayo photogenic so maybe rich ni, pero NO!! Murag purdoi pud ang lalaki. This is making me so sad. I wish I could talk to her and say something nga makapabetter sa iyang life. I wish nakahelp ko niya atong pagHS, permi ra ba mi groupmate. I know she had suffered to much na. I hope it will somehow get better soon.

I hate her parents. Daghan man gud kaayo ko nadungog about sa ilaha. So sad for Sampaguita nga sometimes puno pa ug bun-og ang legs. Parents should accept their children oe and not make them feel nga sila ang mo-make-up sa tanang mga sala nila before. But again, who am i to judge.

Sampaguita.

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